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Fri Jul 18, 2008 12:43 pm |
Anyone here have insecurities when it comes to your husband's secretaries?? |
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Fri Jul 18, 2008 2:39 pm |
It could be possible. I think that many of us have seen so many movies and heard so many stories of husbands having affairs w/ their secretaries. After all, look how closely they work together. I have two thoughts on this one. One, if they are going to do, no wall is tall enough to keep them in...so if it is not the secretary....it will be the coffee girl. My second rule of thought on this is, I hire his secretary, so I make sure he is not attracted to her at all. Keeps it sane! |
_________________ 39 Year "young" female, Using PTR glycolic cleanser and Finacea with success! Passion for living and love Sunny Days/Beaches and The Ocean |
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Fri Jul 18, 2008 3:17 pm |
kittylove wrote: |
Anyone here have insecurities when it comes to your husband's secretaries?? |
Do you have any reasons to have insecurities? |
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Fri Jul 18, 2008 5:58 pm |
I have to say that a lot of affairs happens at work, hopefully not with your husband's case. |
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Fri Jul 18, 2008 7:53 pm |
bergquis wrote: |
My second rule of thought on this is, I hire his secretary, so I make sure he is not attracted to her at all. Keeps it sane! |
Way to go.........
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Fri Jul 18, 2008 9:14 pm |
Great emoticon Kassy!!! THAT'S the secretary I"D pick for him!!! |
_________________ ✪ My go-to products: MyFawnie.BigCartel.com ✪ |
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Sat Jul 19, 2008 7:16 am |
My boss should be sued for sexual harassment! He drives me nuts! I only get peace when he is out playing golf and I've been working for him for 24 years. I threaten to quit all the time, but he won't accept my resignation. But, my boss is also my hubby so what can I say?
Now that my son works for him too, he's had to curb those impulses and innuendos so he's not so bad anymore. Nothing grosses out the kid more than the thought of parents and sex.
And Junior gets employee of the month every month! He makes these posters with goofy faces on the them for me. I Wish I had never made that little joke. |
_________________ Joined the 50 club several years back, blonde w/ fair/sensitive skin, Texas humidity and prone to rosacea, light breakouts and sunburns, combo skin type, starting to see sundamage and fine lines |
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Sat Jul 19, 2008 9:47 am |
AnnieR wrote: |
My boss should be sued for sexual harassment! He drives me nuts! I only get peace when he is out playing golf and I've been working for him for 24 years. I threaten to quit all the time, but he won't accept my resignation. But, my boss is also my hubby so what can I say?
Now that my son works for him too, he's had to curb those impulses and innuendos so he's not so bad anymore. Nothing grosses out the kid more than the thought of parents and sex.
And Junior gets employee of the month every month! He makes these posters with goofy faces on the them for me. I Wish I had never made that little joke. |
That is so cute! Thanks for the chuckle...
Fawnie, just saw your PM, and will hook you up! |
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Tue Jul 22, 2008 2:10 pm |
Funny thing about the secretary post here, I just hired my BF's last secretary, and when we were narrowing them down, he made the comment that so-n-so was flaunting her beauty to him, well she didn't even get the call back from me. That eliminated her right away. So moral of the story is, yes if they are going to do something, you can not build a tight enough cage, but I don;t have to hire the princess either. |
_________________ 39 Year "young" female, Using PTR glycolic cleanser and Finacea with success! Passion for living and love Sunny Days/Beaches and The Ocean |
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Sat Jul 26, 2008 2:14 pm |
You know, my advice, focus on your relationship with your husband and not who's around him. If he's gonna cheat, he's gonna cheat with someone whether it's the secretary or someone else.
The positive: my dad and I got really close after my mom passed away and he opened up to me about things he would never talk about before. One of them was that he NEVER cheated on my mom -- and he travelled a lot for his work. |
_________________ 42yo, natural strawberry blonde so fair skin, blue-eyed, and dry skin |
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Sun Jul 27, 2008 10:17 pm |
i guess before i would start assuming anything about my husband, i would stop and evaluate why i'm having those thoughts in the first place. did something happen to cause my insecurity or hinder my trust in him? if so, that's something to bring up and talk about. if not, why worry when you can enjoy a great relationship with someone you love and loves you back. |
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