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Wed May 02, 2007 8:47 pm  |
just have to vent for a moment,
my cute neighbor who I have been on the brink of dating for a while just decided to 'stop by'...and it just so happens that I'm up to my neck in exams, and so I've been in my pajamas for 3 days with no makeup and a chin full of stress-acne, hair frizzy....
damn it! seriously! |
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Wed May 02, 2007 9:27 pm |
Under no circumstances will I even answer my door if I'm not dressed. I'm a late dresser on the weekends so if the bell rings, I usually hide in the bedroom while my DH answers the door. There have been many times though that I've been stuck in the kitchen while he chats it up at the door with someone. 
Well, at least you've gotten the worse over with. You know, that point in a relationship when you have to show the guy "the real you".  |
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Wed May 02, 2007 9:35 pm |
| Now you'll know if he really likes you (your personality) or if it was just a shallow infatuation! At any rate, if he pursues you, you will be over this issue on always worrying if you look "good enough." If he doesn't pursue you, you don't need some guy who always expects you to look perfect and can't handle the pajama look! |
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Wed May 02, 2007 9:46 pm |
Charis, Right on, Sistah Pants!
My own "Surprise Visitor" Story: I was getting dressed up and expecting my friend (girl type) from work to be by any minute to pick me up for a nite out.. Well, comes a knock on my door, and knowing it just had to be Doris I flung it open half dressed but smelling divine and ...you guessed it: my cute little next door apartment neighbor (boy type) just stood there AGHAST!  but smiling his fool head off! He just wanted to stop by to invite me to a Christmas party for the apartment building. Hooo-ha! Brazen hussy that I am, I just stood there and said "Sure!"
Neither of us ever capitalized on that venture, but it gave us something to laugh and fantasize about for a while to come!!! |
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Wed May 02, 2007 10:58 pm |
| So...have you seen him again yet??? If not...when you do, just act like nothing happened. I'm sure he's seen girls in a much messier state than you! And, if you just act like all's fine...he'll admire your confidence! |
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Thu May 03, 2007 4:54 am |
well, if your "in person" personality is anywhere near as fun as your "online personality" then he'll be smitten with you! If it turns out that this meeting was the beginning of the end....well, better sooner than later! 
pudoodles |
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Thu May 03, 2007 8:57 am |
| charis wrote: |
| Now you'll know if he really likes you (your personality) or if it was just a shallow infatuation! At any rate, if he pursues you, you will be over this issue on always worrying if you look "good enough." If he doesn't pursue you, you don't need some guy who always expects you to look perfect and can't handle the pajama look! |
Absolutely! |
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Thu May 03, 2007 9:13 am |
| ditto to all the above, also, we seem every little detail, they truely don't. If they (men) they tend to find our flaws charming..go figure!! we spend a fortune trying to fix them and they swear they don't even see them! |
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Thu May 03, 2007 10:00 am |
Ditto to the ditto.
Heck, if he's like most guys, he hasn't been able to stop thinking about how lucky he was to catch you not wearing a bra. He probably didn't even notice the hair!! |
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Thu May 03, 2007 10:05 am |
| persephone wrote: |
Ditto to the ditto.
Heck, if he's like most guys, he hasn't been able to stop thinking about how lucky he was to catch you not wearing a bra. He probably didn't even notice the hair!! |
Exaaaaaaaaaactly! |
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Thu May 03, 2007 10:25 am |
| persephone wrote: |
Ditto to the ditto.
Heck, if he's like most guys, he hasn't been able to stop thinking about how lucky he was to catch you not wearing a bra. He probably didn't even notice the hair!! |
 so true, we think they see our thighs are a bit big, hell thats not what they are looking at  |
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Thu May 03, 2007 10:30 am |
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| Ditto to the ditto. |
I wish i was as blind to my own faults as guys seem to be about ours.... |
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Thu May 03, 2007 11:46 am |
it's Murphy's Law. The one time, and litterly I mean one time I run to the grocery store with my hair twisted up and only lip gloss and who do you think I run into? My EX boyfriend and his "new" girlfriend. Of course, I broke up with him, but I am sure he either told his new girl, oh you are so much cutier than her, or he is completely dishonest and did not even tell her I was his ex, for fear of looking like he dated a horrible looking woman.  |
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Thu May 03, 2007 3:01 pm |
I think I'm getting positively sadistic in my old age. I actually enjoyed scaring the postman last week when I opened the door with my hair behind a huge headband, my face covered in avocado, and my glasses on.
It would have mortified me years ago, now I cackle at freakin' out the young 'uns. There has to be some benefits to aging, right? |
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Thu May 03, 2007 5:34 pm |
you guys are hilarious. thanks.
I plan on taking my my rightful position as siren tomorrow, we have plans. teehee.
I haven't talked to him since the fateful run in but I plan on showing up tomorrow looking accidently ravishing.
and for those of you who think maybe I was just a little rumpled when he saw me, ooooo no. I forgot to mention that I have just done some uber exfoliation so my face was electric red also, aaaa!
but pudoodly doo and all of you, I love ya forever for the confidence builders.
can I get a 'go get em tiger?' |
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Thu May 03, 2007 5:38 pm |
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you guys are hilarious. thanks.
I plan on taking my my rightful position as siren tomorrow, we have plans. teehee.
I haven't talked to him since the fateful run in but I plan on showing up tomorrow looking accidently ravishing.
and for those of you who think maybe I was just a little rumpled when he saw me, ooooo no. I forgot to mention that I have just done some uber exfoliation so my face was electric red also, aaaa!
but pudoodly doo and all of you, I love ya forever for the confidence builders.
can I get a 'go get em tiger?' |
Go get em tiger!! Go make him melt! MEEEEOOOOW!!!!! |
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Thu May 03, 2007 6:06 pm |
| This thread reminds me why I was attracted to this forum -you gals are so awesome. |
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Thu May 03, 2007 6:11 pm |
you are so cute! |
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Thu May 03, 2007 6:31 pm |
| waffle wrote: |
you guys are hilarious. thanks.
I plan on taking my my rightful position as siren tomorrow, we have plans. teehee.
I haven't talked to him since the fateful run in but I plan on showing up tomorrow looking accidently ravishing.
and for those of you who think maybe I was just a little rumpled when he saw me, ooooo no. I forgot to mention that I have just done some uber exfoliation so my face was electric red also, aaaa!
but pudoodly doo and all of you, I love ya forever for the confidence builders.
can I get a 'go get em tiger?' |
Actually, I prefer: "Face it, tiger. You just hit the jackpot!" (That's a Spiderman quote, but it's totally applicable here!^-^) Not to worry waffle, I've been caught with my pants down (OK, not literally, but I've been caught with breakouts and unsexy jammies) by sexy neighbors more times than I can count (this was in my pre-married life...), and I always made sure they saw me later all dolled up, which then led to dates. So, not to worry, one look at you in goddess-mode and all will be forgotten!! |
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Thu May 03, 2007 7:49 pm |
YES! Go get 'em Tiger!!! And...he WAS probably looking at your boobs! Guys do that all the time! That post had me cracking up!!!
Love this site!  |
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Thu May 03, 2007 8:26 pm |
ok, you guys are KILLING ME.
but all the comments about the boobs are moot, I don't have any!
doesn't matter, the rest of me is built like a brick house and tomorrow I'm going to play in the sunshine with him and my friends and if he doesn't like what he sees he can go to hell. rarrr!
tiger has been unleashed ladies. or maybe that's the wine I had during grey's anatomy that's talking...either way! |
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Thu May 03, 2007 8:37 pm |
| waffle wrote: |
tiger has been unleashed ladies. or maybe that's the wine I had during grey's anatomy that's talking...either way! |
....and holy guacamole!!! It looks like Addison (sp?) will be getting that spin-off show I keep hearing about....and what about Izzy and O'Malley in the elevator?! And that sufer dude receptionist at the Ocean Rest Resort (or whatever it was called) didn't ring any of my bells...I must officially be an old doll because he looked like he was twelve! He was a McNothing, in my book!
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Thu May 03, 2007 9:32 pm |
| Pudoodles wrote: |
| waffle wrote: |
tiger has been unleashed ladies. or maybe that's the wine I had during grey's anatomy that's talking...either way! |
....and holy guacamole!!! It looks like Addison (sp?) will be getting that spin-off show I keep hearing about....and what about Izzy and O'Malley in the elevator?! And that sufer dude receptionist at the Ocean Rest Resort (or whatever it was called) didn't ring any of my bells...I must officially be an old doll because he looked like he was twelve! He was a McNothing, in my book!
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ok, no, I am 25 and my friend is 28 and we were SCREAMING in horror at surfer mc-ewwwww....he looked 15 and not in the good way.
so obvious that they were using new writers for the spin off portion...such terrible writing...
'I'm going to kiss you now...with tongue'
NO THANK YOU.
although I have to say, mr. long lost guy from wings is looking pretty sexy regardless of his bad lines  |
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Fri May 04, 2007 2:11 pm |
| catski wrote: |
I think I'm getting positively ic in my old age. I actually enjoyed scaring the postman last week when I opened the door with my hair behind a huge headband, my face covered in avocado, and my glasses on.
It would have mortified me years ago, now I cackle at freakin' out the young 'uns. There has to be some benefits to aging, right? |
Ilove that. I offereed my boob to guapa boy the other week and realised postman was lookin in afrrrrrghhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
but tis cool. i think! off to bed"!!!
Liz xx |
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Fri May 04, 2007 2:30 pm |
| waffle wrote: |
just have to vent for a moment,
my cute neighbor who I have been on the brink of dating for a while just decided to 'stop by'...and it just so happens that I'm up to my neck in exams, and so I've been in my pajamas for 3 days with no makeup and a chin full of stress-acne, hair frizzy....
damn it! seriously! |
You think that's bad, wait for this!!
Our back garden is not overlooked if you lay down in a certain spot, so last year in the summer, whilst sunbatheing I decided to go topless! First time I have EVER gone topless and boy did I feel nude! There I was laying down enjoying the sunshine with my headphones on until something caught my eye and I looked up to see my next door neighbour standing on a ladder cleaning his conservatory roof in full view of me!! As I spotted him, he spotted me and nearly fell off his ladder! Well I could have died of embarrassment! The worse thing is....... he's a vicar! |
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